"NO means NO," the true Golden rule of swinging but one must apply it to ensure it's effectiveness.

When in a situation where un welcomed advances are being made, what do you do? Do you cont...

Many who are new to the lifestyle seem to seek swinging partners who are at their same level of experience.

Of course I always advise that one should seek what makes them comfortable but a f...

Wouldn't it be a different world if, like John Lennon suggested, we all rethought our current strategy on world harmony (i.e. masculinised military solutions based on hate, aggression and fear) and at...

I wanted to share some questions I get alot form new swingers and non swingers.
1. Isn't swinging the same as cheating? Well no it is not as long as you are both in agreement to swinging and that ...

NO I'm not getting on cam, NO I do not want to see you on cam, NO I'm not sending more pics, NO I do not want to have cyber sex or phone sex, NO we do not swing separately.........

NO means N...

It can be difficult to tell a new friend/prospective swinging partner that sexually you are not interested, especially if you like them and enjoy their friendship.

Would you want to hear "Tha...

Swinging is about adventure in fulfilling fantasies and desires. To obtain our desires, we all must be who we are. Regardless of physical attributes or what some may view as downfalls, we must show co...

Being a member of the ST gives all of us the opportunity to meet and mingle with others in the lifestyle community. It is up to each of us to present ourselves in a truthful positive manner in an atte...

I have talked with quite a few members who are discouraged because they are constantly ignored while in the chat room and not on cam.

I decided to check it out!

I logged into the cha...

ST groups are a very active enhancement to our SwingTowns community of members!

The purpose of an ST group is to enable members to chat and become more acquainted and comfortable before actu...

How important is honesty when adding others as friends and new sex partners to our lives? How much information is a prospective partner/partners expected to share with us?

I personally feel t...

Be sure to present yourself accurately in your profile!

If you are a couple with a bi or bi curious female and a str8 male you do not want to list yourselves as a bi couple in the stats secti...