Just want to say that we appreciate and are flattered by the "Likes", but if you're more that miles away and/or have no plans to visit the area, it's not likely we'll return the Like. Nothing personal. If you're looking for a couple that will actually meet with people, you've found them. We generally do well with both experienced people and newbies. The sex is great, but we also really enjoy the social aspects of the lifestyle (LS). We are now comfortable in almost any LS situation, but we realize others may not be and that you have to feel comfortable in order to have fun. We seem to have a knack of making people feel comfortable. We do that by simply being ourselves and letting people move at their own pace. We get to play a lot, so we feel no need to push or pull anyone into anything. We enjoy playing with others that WANT to play with us because they enjoy our company and we enjoy theirs. Their's no jealousy between us because we genuinely enjoy seeing and hearing each other having fun with others. At this point we sort of view sex with others like vanilla people might view bowling. It's something fun to do with people that you enjoy being with. Just because it's fun, it doesn't mean we want to bowl all the time. There's also no worry that if us is going home with someone else because they got a higher score ;-) Ironically we do enjoy bowling, both actually and metaphorically ;-) We also enjoy golf, going for a ride on the motorcycle, travel/sight seeing, dancing (ballroom), looking for bargains in antique/consignment shops, entertaining, cooking, making/canning our homemade salsa, home improvement projects, sci-fi and comedy movies, cards, and many other things that we enjoy sharing with others, besides ourselves of course.

We've lived out many of our fantasies but there are so many variations possible. As Dorothy said in the Wizard of Oz, "Blindfolds and bondage and spankings. Oh my!!!" That would be the X-rated version of course...lol Been in the LS since Feb and have had a fair # of experiences via lifestyle and private parties. At this point I would rate us past the "novice" stage. .

Looking for local couples (within ~ miles) that love sex as much as we do. Ones that are laid back and easy to talk to, not grossly overweight, and both enjoy (at least the thought of) seeing their other half have a good time with others. If we do play, we like long playful sessions where BOTH play and are on the same page. Couples that know what they do and don't like and aren't afraid to communicate that. Group friendly is definitely a plus. SINGLE MALES: We only meet with singles males we don't know at LS parties, unless you have a single girl to bring along. You are welcome to ask us what parties we attend. Otherwise emails and/or IMs will likely be ignored (best case). Blindfolds, bondage, and flogging/spanking are all cool, but "in addition to" and not "in place of" sex. Nice if we can find FWBs that enjoy other things with us on occasion, like dinner, dancing, golf, a movie, play cards, bowling, etc.

When we play with others we ALWAYS use condoms for penetration. If you're looking for the girls to start with g/g action then we're probably not the couple for you. Not saying it can't happen, but not likely. The Mrs likes guys too much :-) Not a rule, but prefer to meet at house parties as it gives us the most bang for the buck (pardon the pun). Will play on the first date if everyone is into/comfortable with each other. Single guys, if you email us and there is no reference to a party in the Subject line and we don't know you, you are wasting your time. If you do go to parties, put the word "Party" as the subject line in the email. If you are a couple and the female half doesn't want to or is not allowed to play with guys then we are not a good match. We do occasionally have LS parties at our house and have a large circle of LS friends but if you're a COUPLE that likes group sex, send us an email if interested. We do not charge for our parties because we consider our guests "friends", and who charges friends to entertain them ;-) We do NOT advertise our parties on sites and they are by invitation only.

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