ADHD + sexy + spontaneous = FIRE

We have been living our best sexual life for about 3 years, but we really can’t say we are all that experienced. While a LOT of that is COVID’s fault, we have also made a lot of newbie mistakes that we aren't interested in making again. We want to have fun, but there has to be a connection with all parties. We do NOT have sex on a first date. If the first date goes well, We WILL do side by side with damn near anyone anything beyond that, we are happy to discuss once we are ALL on board and feeling the same vibe. If you have been in the LS for a while, we have gone on first dates with a few of you and LOVE your company. However, we might not be your jam. If you have been at this for some time and expect to have sex on that first date (I don’t know how to politely be more clear) we are not the couple. HOWEVER, we are spontaneous AF and if you want to hang out on a whim, your date flakes or you don’t mind taking things slower than you may like, we would love to hang out! Immediate turn offs: Pushy and aggressive people. People that have to talk politics, DRAMA!!! My husband gets migraines from cigarette smoke. He is a lot of fun but can be a little slow to make a move and even a tad anxious. This is because he is a gentleman and takes your relationship with your spouse very seriously. He will respect you and your husband. And my GOD can eat pussy. I like men that are funny, smart, gentleman in and out of the bedroom and not pushy or aggressive. The size of your cock isn’t as important as your ability to communicate. Looking for like-minded sexy friends. More than anything, we are looking for the elusive 4-way connection that lasts. FWB anyone? Mostly, we are looking for discrete, like minded friends that aren't afraid of expressing their sexuality. We are only interested in playing together and are open to side by sides and soft swapping. Once we get to know each other and build trust and chemistry we are open to full swap but those details will become clear as our relationship grows. We are not looking to have sex with as many people as possible. We prefer quality relationships over quantity of partners.

We have been told by people in the lifestyle and people outside that we're a blast to be around. We are very easy going and just like being around sexy people. The process we typically follow: 1st we send a message on here or will respond to yours. If we like your profile, we would love to get a group chat going to get a sense for how well we all click. After we have a conversation on Kik, Telegram, or Wikr, we can set up a first date. Next comes the first date. As we said above, our rule is no sex on the first date. If that date goes well, then we can go from there. .

Mostly, we are looking for like minded friends that aren't afraid of expressing their sexuality. They will be discreet, DDF free, and secure in their relationship. We do not smoke and expect the same. We like to use Wickr Me (there is a free app with no advertisements for smartphones and computers) to chat and share pictures because it is much more secure than[Removed]. However, we do use[Removed] as well.

We really hate the drama that tends to be associated with the LS. We will be straight up and honest with you and expect the same. We really enjoy and are excited about having adult friends that can handle the complexities of the LS. .

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