The Ancient History of BDSM

Have you ever wondered where BDSM came from?  Throughout the 20th century there has been an underground fetish culture that has only recently come into the light (thanks to the internet and the mainstream ‘50 Shades’ series.)  The community was once considered by medical professionals as sexually deviant, paraphilia, and to be suffering from a […]

Is the Polyamorous Lifestyle the Secret to Happiness?

Is the polyamorous lifestyle the secret to happiness? When most people think of a happy marriage they picture a partnership where the couple doesn’t want to do anything without the other person. They try to live and breathe each other constantly to fulfill the “I can’t live without you” or “I’m not happy without you” […]

The Ultimate Cheat Sheet on Swinging

Did someone mention swinging and it left you wanting to know more?   Swinging is an intriguing lifestyle that often leads everyone to wonder “What is it?” and “Why do people do it?” I honestly don’t think we can’t help being a little curious about swinging.  The word itself is  impossible to ignore.  Whether you are […]

Why Monogamous Relationships Don’t Work

When you stood together saying your marriage vows you thought that meant it was time to “grow up” and be in a “real adult relationship”.  One that doesn’t cheat or have sex with others (with or without permission).  You were saying goodbye to one night stands, threesomes, foursomes, or anything else that came your way […]

How to Setup a Threesome The Easy Way!

There’s no wonder why anyone would have a threesome at the top of their sexual fantasy list.  It’s incredibly sexy to have more than one partner’s hands, mouth, and body all over you at once. First timers say that the orgasm during a threesome is like nothing they have ever experienced before. Being told, or […]

Photo Tips For Your Swinger Profile

It was lust at first sight — unless it wasn’t.  If your swinger profile isn’t attracting the couples you crave, your profile photos could be the blame.  Nobody wants to see up close photos of your naughty places before they even find out what you’re about.  Save those glorious dick and pussy shots for after […]

The Hotwife Lifestyle for Beginners

Most men think they have a hot wife, but do you really know what that means?  Simply put, a hotwife is a married women who is allowed to have sexual relationships and experiences with other men without her partner present.  Unlike swinging or sharing, a hot wife is free to go alone and have her […]

Why Group Sex is Gaining In Popularity

Do you think group sex is gaining in popularity?  Many think so.  In the past fifteen years, survey results are showing a steady (5%) increase in men and women reporting they have participated in sex with more two or more partners at a time.  But why?  Why is group sex gaining popularity?  And is it […]

Top Tips to Start Swinging with Your Partner

Do you want to start swinging but don’t know where to begin?  That’s okay!  Everyone had to start somewhere and you’re living in time when swinging has never been easier!  The internet has afforded us the opportunity to learn more, share more, and get more from the Lifestyle!  Here’s how to get started: Establish the […]

Can the Swinging Lifestyle Save Your Marriage?

Can the swinging lifestyle save your marriage?   The Lifestyle is about having fun with your partner and making up your own rules.  Rules that fit only the two of you.  There is no one-size-fits-all method to swinging and I think that is why it can save a marriage.  It promotes a greater bond with your […]