Why open that can of worms?

If you are a couple and your spouse is trying to overcome jealousy issues, assist them.

When separate rooms are chosen as an arena for a swapping experience, never be free willing to give your spouse a "blow by blow" description (no pun intended) of activities with this added partner.

Why open that can of worms?

Of course, if your spouse asks questions, answer them truthfully.But DO NOT be overly descriptive in an OMG! it was totally awesome tone of voice.

As a jealous spouse, why ask questions?

If you must know, wait a few days before asking. Allow time for the experience to sink in. But remember, never ask unless you really want to hear the answer, it may not be exactly as you thought. Be prepared to fully accept any answer that you may receive or simply do not ask.

Please allow me to say that the above advice is given provided all guidelines have been kept. When guidelines are broken, it is always best to inform your spouse and communicate to work through it.

Please remember!

As a couple your main concern is each other. The pleasure of your spouse is as equally important as yours in the lifestyle.

When did you last tell your spouse this?

Thanks for reading Gin's thought for the day ~ Gin